Birthday‑week edition because Somehow, I’m turning 29, and that deserves a whole series.
Okay, so here’s the deal: some of these things will make perfect sense, and some will be completely random. That’s the charm of being 29 — you’re old enough to know what you like, young enough to still be chaotic, and self‑aware enough to laugh about it. This list is a mix of comfort, nostalgia, tiny joys, and things that just make my life feel softer.
Let’s get into it.
1. My Fake Kindle
I love the idea of a Kindle… but not the price, and not the missing features. So I made my own. A $33 tablet + a cute case = my fake Kindle. She works perfectly, and I use her every night.
2. Reading
I used to hate reading. Now I’m reading every night like it’s a ritual. Twenty‑eight hours last month alone. And no, you cannot judge the books I pick. We mind our business here.
3. Birthday Girl
My favorite book of 2026. I’m obsessed. I will be talking about it soon, and yes, a book club post is coming because I need everyone else to experience the chaos with me.
4. Cow — My Cat
My little guy. My cuddle buddy. My heart. I miss him so much, but Izzy and Tia keep me updated with photos. Nothing replaces him curling up on me while I read, though. I will now go be emotional.
5. Izzy
I don’t know where I’d be without her. Laughing, crying, healing, spiraling, thriving — she’s there for all of it. Our fun is real, and I’m grateful for her every day.
6. My Friends
Yes, they take Izzy’s side in everything. Yes, it’s annoying. But they make me laugh harder than anyone else, so I guess I’ll allow it.
7. Stardew Valley
My comfort game since 2019. The characters, the cozy vibes, the cows, HARVEY… I will never get tired of it.
8. Minecraft
I’ve been playing since high school… which was 15 years ago… which feels illegal. But I still love it. Building, exploring, dying accidentally it’s part of the charm.
9. Music
My playlists are basically mood boards. Shower music, cooking music, cleaning music, working music I have a playlist for everything. And yes, I have a rain playlist and a Stardew playlist for reading. Don’t judge me.
10. Hot Showers
I love a shower so hot it almost hurts. It’s like burning away stress and starting fresh. Therapeutic chaos.
11. Napping
I love sleep. My body does not. So when I can nap, it’s magical even if I wake up feeling like I fought for my life in my dreams.
12. Storms
Lightning scares me, but thunder and rain? Perfect. The dark sky, the smell, the rumble… it’s the best cozy weather.
13. Talks With My Dad
I love when I go to tell him one small thing and it turns into a two‑hour conversation about everything. It feels like the version of childhood I wish I had, and I treasure it now.
14. My Nieces
One wants to kill me (wish that was a joke). The other will grow up hearing lies about me. But they’re still my nieces, and I’ll always hope life is kind to them. I will always love them.
15. Drawing
I don’t do it as much anymore, but it’s still one of my favorite hobbies. It’s peaceful, grounding, and something I can always come back to.
💗 Part Two Drops Tuesday
This is only part one the soft, cozy, sentimental section. Tuesday we get into the next chunk of things I love, and yes… it’ll be just as chaotic and just as very‑me.
Okay byeee, love you, go drink water and do something gentle for yourself today 💗
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